Category: Personal


Some lines…

Came up wid few lines..so thought shud share wid u guys…

“Na jaane kitna kiya unka intezaar is khule aasmaan ke niche,
Vo toh kabhi na aaye par sitaron se dosti si ho gyi”

- Barun Chakravarty

Are you still holding that hand… !!!

It is a normal process to take stock of things after a major disaster, be it an earthquake or a hurricane.The  recent financial turmoil is no less and so now when i can safely talk about its end there are various areas where experts are assessing the damage caused and things to be learned in future.

But the area which i want to focus is different…well while it’s not anymore a  news that the recession has taken its toll on every possible category.. but it will be interesting to note how has it affected the guys who afforded to be in love or in a romantic relationship in their lives before recession…The BIG Question is …Do they still manage to hold on to that special person even after the recession!!!

Yes when things go bad…there is a crazy chain reaction that starts and even before people thought how on earth can a bank failing in far US turn their romantic relation sour…the chain reaction did its work and their they were…out of job, out of money, frustrated and out of a relation too!!!

A relation has its own needs (I am still to find someone who knows all the ingredients in the correct proportion!!) and among a lot of other things that makes a relation tick, peace of mind is an important requirement and the recession ensured that you have none of it what so ever…so it led to all that erratic behaviour one associates with a mind that is not at peace with itself…you got angry too fast , you talked negative, looked lost and that you had no money in your pocket you surely didn’t help…A truly Scary situation!!!

So no fancy candle lit dinners, no romantic long drives, no discos, less movies together, lesser hours spent over phone and even lesser surprise gifts (that once earned you a tight hug or a loving kiss of your loved one)…all resulting in less quality time spent together and you can sense relation is heading towards a rough patch.This has roughly been the story of many love stories all around…but when you think it’s all getting predictable the human spirit surprises you yet again… and we hear stories of people falling in love and being in love despite the difficulties thrown in by recession…Proving once again for a billionth time that between Spirit and Situation it’s Spirit that prevails.

Kudos to all of you who have manged to steer their relations out of these truly troubled times!!! I am sure the bond must have only become stronger…

So Dude thousand salutes to you if you are still holding that hand… !!!

Cheers……….

My Reflections on this Day…

On the eve of my birthday a plethora of thoughts are floating in my mind…28 January…What is special about this day? What is that for which I must feel happy and rejoice??

Lying on the bed, these questions are knocking on my head and I am relying on my heart to provide me the answers…and the answers do come, giving me an immense amount of peace and relief.

This was the day I got life and thus this day brought happiness to my parents and Family. After that each year when this day came, more and more people who have been associated to me have become a part of it.

When they are excited, when they are happy and when they wait for this date I am amazed by their love and affection. It is this happiness…the happiness of my parents, my family and my dear friends that gets reflected in me. It is their happiness that runs through me and it is their emotions which makes this day special for me.

I thus take this day as an opportunity to thank all of them for their selfless Love…which I would never be able to pay back ever.

I also take this day to make a promise to myself to work harder to make my parents happier and my friends too in every way I possibly can in the times to come.

God has been extremely kind to me to give me such wonderful parents, great life and such loving buddies. I can’t thank him enough for this.

I seek blessings from almighty GOD as his child to give me strength and capability so that I take the right path in future and can be of help to as many people as I can.

Forgive me god for all my mistakes that I have committed both intentional and unintentional and I here…sincerely apologise to all my friends whom I may have hurt in any way whatsoever.

Forgive me guys…After all I am your Friend ;-)

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